Should I Watch My Children
in the Gym?
There is the question of whether parents should watch their children
practice or not. At the preschool and lower levels, the short class
time and lack of other nearby adult activities results in a naturally higher
percentage of parental viewers. This percentage decreased to near
zero at the upper team level. But what is the “right” thing to do?
Should Be Allowed but Discouraged
Coaches are universally convinced that it is usually best if
parents not watch their children every class period. Some gyms go
so far as to ban parent viewing of team and training team programs.
There are legitimate reasons to do this, but we believe that it is best
to allow parental viewing at any time, while discouraging it for the benefit
of the child’s advancement.
Want Practice Time, Not Always a Performance
Some gymnasts feel extra pressure to perform for or in the presence
of their parents and do not progress as well under that pressure.
If parents are constantly in attendance, their gymnast may be constantly
performing as opposed to the more relaxed, progressive state of practicing.
Coaches need to be able to control this balance of pressure and relaxation
and the presence of parents can complicate that.
Don’t Try to Coach Your Child
Children are often distracted and pay attention to their parents
instead of the coach, when parents are in the gym. This happens at
all levels of the sport from preschool to team. Parents sometimes
try to do their own brand of coaching from the sidelines which distracts
the gymnast, complicates and slows the coaching process and even may be
dangerous. A parent who coaches their child to point their toes,
when the coach is emphasizing somersault rotation could be distracting
the gymnast from a safety point of view.
Leave It to the Pros
Gymnastics is a very complicated sport and constantly evolving.
It is a full-time job just to keep up with the rule changes. Even parents
who were gymnasts will find their knowledge limited. Coaching is
best left to the professionals, especially at the team level. While
gymnasts are paying attention to signals from their parents, they are unable
to absorb important feedback and information from the coach.
Watching Class vs. Watching Team Practice
It is much more understandable if parents of preschool and recreational
class gymnasts watch their gymnast's whole practice. Since
they are likely there for only about an hour, it can be a waste of time
to drive back home and come back right away. Watching an entire team
practice or the majority of it (most parents don;t have the time) however,
is also much more likely to be a bad idea.
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